When my mother and the eegit Husband started having problems i witnessed the worst of it and i don't think either the twin or the eldest sister realised half of what was going on. Both the twin and I were at University in the west but graduation was approaching and the twin was taking up the camp america route before the real word kicked in
The mother had become more and more depressed and the eegit couldn't cope with this. At the same time he had met up with an old girlfriend and was begining to consider his options. he talked about this with the mother (told you eegit!). This lead to some spectacular blow ups between them, (words only no fists). usually in the living room and in from of me. Yes i was in my twenties, but emotionally fragile.
When my parents fought when we were little, it was scary, particularly when the da lost his temper. as kids raised voices made us all frightened and to some extent still do. i can't even shout myself without crying.
so big emotional scenes, leading to mum being diagnoised as manic. which i was told by the eggit in the car at the top of a hill, with mum rambling nonsense in the background.
more to follow, she's on the phone
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