After the last big blow out big sis introduced a pact for all the women in the family to get us through the festive season. basically we would all talk to each other, there would be no recriminations, no blame apportioned and we would just get on. which we have pretty much been trying too.
Today I did the dutiful daughter bit and texted the mother too see how she is, Sunday is usually the day we visit but twin and I both have colds and she still has her 'vomiting bug'. After her usul rambling texts she sent me the following.
'I thought twin had signed up to big sis' agreement. I've texted her several times this week but no reply and it can't be because of her cold as she has been going out. I am not trying to put youin the middle. I would just like her to contact me. I'd like to know where I stand thanks'
my response was that she had signed up but cause i had responded to mum and shared Twin didn't think that she had to but she would text later.
So by sending that text and not comunicating with Twin directly she has put me in the middle, expecting me to guilt trip twin into contacting her and broached big sis' agreement. I know I should have told her to sort it out herself but it was just easier to tell twin to text. gotta stop pandering to her.
Also found out today that due to her mad ramblings and texts that she and my father are not speaking. he seems relived but I'm just waiting for the next blow.
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