So yesterday I got this long rambling text from my mother and in it she asked me if I heard from big sis as she was worried because she's been off colour all week and has a lot on her plate. My radar says either guilt or alchol but I may be just being bitter here. Anyway I texted her back and said i hadn't talked to big sis since Monday and was more concerned about dad anyway but that I couldn't talk right then.
She never responded at all and then this morning i contacted her to dvise that "Ginger" (our car) had gone to the garage. it was previously in her car park and that I should be able to return her car "Snowy" this weekend. She replied that this was fine and then told a big story about Big Sis and the youngest niece and her baby sitter who has the same name as me. I like to know whats going on but she has totally blanked my concerns for my father which is a bit annoying.
Twin thinks she is doing it so I won't fight with her, which is fair enough. Saying that Big Sis emailed me about a work query and my response was all formal and stuff, but then she asked about my weekend. I made a point of saying I would be seeing both my parents seperately but didn't tell her anything else. i don't think its appropriate to challenge her over the work email anyway but should I have said something?
nope would have just caused a fight. I would only raise it if she tries to make you take sides.
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